Saturday, February 20, 2021

First advice.

Today, a bride to be asked, if there is one advise I would give to newly married couple, what would it be.
I told her, if one is angry, sit down and talk. If one is still angry, lie down and talk.
I added that it's not the position you take when talking that's important, it's the fact that you have to talk it out. She then told me that it's an Hadith... I guess it is.
I then add, then when somebody is talking it out, it does not necessarily means they want a solution, they just want somebody to listen to what they are saying.
Once a couple can do that, then it will be nice to know that once you reached home, there is someone who you can depend on to be able to listen and not judge.

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