Forever Slimming...a father of two..a brother to two, a husband to one...
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
My Day
Monday, September 27, 2010
Otw
On the way back. Cannot find my photo paper.
I did not know it could be so windy in the train.
It was drizzling abit on the way back to the station and apart from the spicy temptation emanating from all of them indian food stalls, my journey on the way back home has started.
slim
Train
I cannot believe it. I am on a train heading to mustafa. I am listening to mp3 on my galaxy s and this rocks.
Its not the train ride, its not the mp3s, its the fact that i am able to.
Its like, look ma, i am walking! This is awesome. Its not like i have not done this before but this time i am painless. Well, not really painless, my waist has expanded and the belt is itching my skin.
Its now 1.41pm and i have just reached buangkok. Since i left at 1.15, it takes.me half an hour to reach buangkok station. About the same time taken if i were to drive.
Scanning, scanning
Hmm, not many girls to look at. Lots if youngsters, poly age.
Ok just passed hougang. Its 1.44pm.
Anyway, need to buy photo paper, photo album and a ladle if i can find it.
slim
Sunday, September 26, 2010
Walk
I went for a walk today. It felt good. Twice in so many days! Walked with su and i think it was 1.2km one way.
It really felt good. Do not know if i had lose weight but i felt so energetic.
On another note, arsenal lost to sunderland yesterday. Whats up with that!
Slim
slim
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Adam and Wawa
This was taken using the nex 5. Starfruits
Sunday, September 19, 2010
Tired
Just came back from having breakfast at kfc. This is as adam, su, irsyad and wan completed the posb kids run.
Going to yishun safra later. There is a timbaland warehouse sale. I hope its worth it.
slim
Saturday, September 18, 2010
Bic of soda
I have just drank a glass of rose flavoured bic of soda. Su said that it should help with my gout pain.
I have pain in my right hand now and i won't be taking any painkillers.
Updates tomorrow then.
slim
Friday, September 17, 2010
Lunch
I am alone. Risa is fasting. Su is at work. Adam is in school and dad should be at jb doing his friday prayers.
I will be trying to pray standing up today. If i succeed, i can do my friday prayers again.
slim
Posb. Kids. Run.
Adam will be participating in the kids run thus Sunday. Suntec will be the accompanying adult. They have been running for the past two nights. Short distances nevertheless it should warm up their muscle memory.
slim
Tuesday, September 07, 2010
A day after
Slim.
Monday, September 06, 2010
Mom-Ed
Amin.
Slim.
Sept 6 9.49am
I could not take it yesterday night. I went and had coffee thinking it would help to keep me awake. Wishful thinking.
Went to the car and tried to sleep in the car. My finger tips began to tingle. Made up my mind and drove off home.
Mom is more alert now than yesterday night. Although she is not eating.
But fortunately, she has a new found liking to the liquid supplement that we have been trying to give her.
Cina was here earlier than me but has now left. She has a viewing to see to.
Slim.
Sunday, September 05, 2010
5th September 9.54pm
She is still breathing through her mouth and I think she will be calm throughout the night. The nurses had turned her and I could distinctly heard that she said "ouch". One of the very few words that I could distinctly make out out of her recently.
A different set of nurses is taking care of the ward today. I don't know the staff nurse's name though.
Having a meeting with the radiotherapy doctors tomorrow at 8.30am. Dad does not want to be in any meeting and he said that whatever the doctors want to do with Mak, go ahead.
I am glad that he left for home today. Unlike yesterday when he slept in the car through the rain and all.
That just leaves me. What shall I do? It's only 10.01pm. I don't want to leave but I need something to do. I wish Su was here. At least I would have somebody to talk to. She wanted to join me later but I told her to stay at home, seeing how tired she was today.
Slim.
Update from cina 1234 5th sep 2011
Ya Allah.
Slim.
Saturday, September 04, 2010
Update at 11.54pm 4 sept 2010
Dialysis successful.
Drainage of lungs successful. Less liquid is seen at the lungs.
Blood test showed an increase in heart or blood enzymes. Indicative of heart problems. Further test will be done later at 5 am.
She can swallow. But need to feed her slowly and lift her bed higher. If not she might choke.
End.
Slim.
Sleeping
looks like a goldfish out of water.
I don't really think she is sleeping. She just don't have the energy to move.
I love her so much.
When I was down with appendicitis, she visited me everyday. I was at
sigh then. She seemed to be the only person next to me although I know
many others came.
I remembered one question that she asked me and one which I did not
answer. She asked me if it was the other way around would I do the
same for her. I remembered not answering as I thought it was a silly
question. A no brainer. Of course I will be around. That's what I
thought then.
I was hardly around. When she would be in my ward the moment I woke
up, I would only be in hers the moment I woke up. And when she would
leave when I fell asleep, I would leave after I had my dinner. Yup
that's me. Stupid me.
But this is not about me. I don't really know as to how long Mak will
be around. I am afraid.
Slim.
My mother
Anyway, I wrote almost daily updates on my blog.
And to you guys, thank you for reminding me that I am not alone. Liverpool fans or not.
Slim.
Mouth
This is the third time I am at nuh in less than 24 hrs. It is tiring, but its not about me now is it?
It seems that Mak has difficulty in swallowing. As such her food and water tend to end up in her lungs.
She had gone for a dialysis just now. Dad and keling has left for home but dad is just a matter of a phone call away.
Su is with me. I love her so much.
Keling said that Mak won't last until
Cina solemnization ceremony. I think that's a bit cruel but this is not about her too.
Nurse suggested that there will be at least one of us to accompany Mak tonight. Does that sound omen like? Who cares? It's not about her too.
It's about Mak and Allah.
Slim.
Bed
I came back to visit her at about 2 in the morning just now. She has been asking for dad every waking hour. Dad came too. After we gave her some milk, she fell asleep. That when we left and we has sahur at simpang bedok.
She is still asking for dad and I would like to think that dad is on the way. She is having difficulty breathing again.
Slim.
Friday, September 03, 2010
Blood transfusion
Slim.
Asthma
Slim.
Scan
Slim.
Doc just called.
Slim.
Thursday, September 02, 2010
Doc
Finally she said that the renal has been informed and will be here shortly.
Slim.
Chemotherapy
Slim.
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Mak
Monday, August 30, 2010
Mak at nuh
Mak is in nuh having fluids taken out of her lungs. She is in good spirits. We told her that if she was to be administered the good medicine, she has to eat. She finished a whole serving of the fish. Of course, credit must be given to keling as she patiently mash up the fish and firmly hand fed it to Mak.
Mak's mouth bled a little just now. Anyway, after the meal, some colour came back to her face.
My dad is worried as to where he should sleep later. As he will be alone, and he is afraid of the dark. I did invite him to sleep over at my place.
Slim.
2.44
Dad was already asleep and mom seemed to be sleeping soundly. Although, in her condition, its impossible to tell.
Dad managed to compete the ramp outside the main gate. I hope he will not have any problems bringing mom out in her wheel chair tomorrow.
Lots of people came today.
I need to drive back home now. Feeling very tired and sleepy.
Slim.
Saturday, August 28, 2010
Going back today
My mother seems happier today, although she has an asthma attack while we breaking fast. She is fine now.
Dad brought her out of her room to watch tv with us in the living room. She still has her wits with her. She made us laugh and my dad smiled and sniggered. I bet that made his day.
I am suppose to be on the way back now. But I am waiting for my little sis to come back home.
My darling wife, told me to stay put and not leave yet. I would have left if I was on my own.
Watching a Malay movie on Suria channel now. Don't know what the movie is all about though.
Slim.
Friday, August 27, 2010
Mom, supported.
Mom
I drove to Tampines.
She told me to take care of my two sisters when she is gone. She said that she does not want to die yet. She wanted to be there when Tini gets married. I told her that every negative thoughts she had is like a prayer.
She held my hand, turn to the side and fell asleep.
Not before telling me not to switch off the lights cause dad is afraid of the dark. She still jokes.
Slim.
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Envy
Monday, July 19, 2010
Rambutan
LadyBug
This was the first time I saw a real lady bug. Picture taken with a Nex 5, 18-55mm lens. I saw this lady bug as I was surveying the jungle that was once the kid's garden. I shudder to think as to what would happen to it the next time I go back. Judging from my mother-in-law time table, it should be after Hari Raya. That is at least two more months! Oh well, I hope by that time, my sunflower plant would have flowered.Garden
Kampong
Thursday, July 15, 2010
Lotus Paste
I am so excited. I just got myself a new lens. Its the Sony 30mm 2.8 macro. It all plastic, thus its light. Its in APSC format so should be perfect for my NEX5 camera. The picture is of the top of my lotus bun and taken with my 7D! See! It even works with my 7D!
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
I got a new toy.
Monday, July 05, 2010
Sarah's 7th Birthday
Thursday, July 01, 2010
Nerf Gun
Monday, June 28, 2010
I am legend
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
desaru 2010
Monday, June 21, 2010
Seedling
Sunday, June 20, 2010
Durian Belanda
Soursop. I love the taste of soursop. I use to frequent Serasi food court near Singapore botanical garden during my NIE days. The glass would be full of pulp and the juice would be so sweet. I missed those days.
Durian
Pancake
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
35-70mm f4.0 macro
Its in my hands now. The 35-70mm macro f4.0. Not that its an exquisite lens but it is of an exquisite condition.
Monday, June 14, 2010
The kids garden
Rubber plantation
Monday, June 07, 2010
Minolta 5d
The pic shows the Konica Minolta 5d with the 50mm 1.4 stuck on it. This camera belongs to Adam. I bought it for him, and the life of me, I can't understand why I reach out for this camera instead of my 7d. 35-70mm f4.0
into photography. Stopped when my 600si broke, disintegrated is a better word for it and picked up a used 8000i when a friend needed his wedding to be taken. Wednesday, June 02, 2010
My birthday



Yesterday was my 38th birthday. Although we did celebrate it in Rembau, Adam and Su and Risa prepared a birthday lunch consisting of pizzas, one with mushroom and one without. I am so touched. Adam chose a black wallet for me, although the credit card slots were very tight.
Rembau
Funny

Was thinking of blogging about what happened at kampung but somehow I came across the picture. Its funny as the word "pepek" refers to the female sexual organ, in my native language that is. I would think that it should be spelt as "bebek" instead as that would mean a bird. I got me laughing hysterically.
Thursday, May 27, 2010
American Idol
My noisemaker is a star!
Monday, May 24, 2010
Taking the bus.
how long will it be before I reach home?
Slim.
Sunday, May 23, 2010
Exams
Today is Sunday the 23rd of May 2010. Its is 11.30 at night and I'm sleepy as hell. But tried as I might, I can't sleep. Maybe I'm stressed out by my first sociological paper tomorrow. I've never done sociology before and after flunking my first assignment, the first ever, I think that studying is really hard. Duh!
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
My little noisemaker is busy
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
going for tuition soon
13 inches
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Me radio
using my iPhone. The best thing is, it can work in the background. So
here I am, listening to michael buble, through my
iPhone which is connected to my small philips computer speakers. It
works!
Slim.
Monday, May 10, 2010
s90.



Sunday, May 09, 2010
Trek
it cost me a bit under $500. Bought it at treknology off yio chu kang
road.
Nice people there. The staff actually let you try the bikes before you
buy and they will recommend the bikes according to sizes. Mine is 17.5
to 19 inches. Finally settled for a blue trek 3 series with the size
18 inches printed on its frame
Although the shop is small, it has quite a diverse range of bikes.
They stock mostly trek and gary fisher bikes and the most espensive I
saw was a road bike that cost around $4k. Sheesh.
So they recommened mr a couple of bikes, not the pricier ones though
but the most logical. I like that in a sales person.
Went for a spin with it in the afternoon with Adam and Su. Headed
towards spc petrol kiosk, and bought some curry puffs. Adam's rear
tire went flat as I was about to inflate it and he had to cycle it
back. Poor he.
Now, am resting after cycling around the estate. Very, very, very
refreshing. Bike need some more tuning as I am still not comfortable
with the angle of the handle bars.
Actually, I fell. I fell when I tried to move off after getting out of
the elevators. Fell on my side, and I think I must have bounced!
So my new aim to wear out the tyres by the end of the month.
I have only cycled for only ten minutes, hoping to be at least 15
tomorrow.
Bye!
Slim.
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Airport express
works!
Now I am listening to music in my room streaming from my mac mini in
the living room. Simply awesome. Plug the damn thing in, open airport
utility in the mac mini, answer three question and that's it!
And the best thing is, I can control the output, where the music is,
how loud it is from my iPhone! Super cool.
Cost me $140 from sgl marketing. A shop on the second floor in sim lim
square. $8 bucks less than if I were to buy it online or at epicenter.
Can't wait for the ipad to be officially available in Singapore. Can't
wait.
Slim.
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
time capsule ... and more
Friday, April 16, 2010
time capsule
Sunday, April 11, 2010
Ukelele
Reuters cameraman shot dead
from The Straits Times:
You can read it up by clicking on http://is.gd/bnIrU
Slim.
Sunday, April 04, 2010
Football
to clear some of her markings.
Anyway, just how much does those football players are earning? Must be
more than mine.
Just bought a philips bd3000 blue Ray player. It's the second one I
bought. Cost me $229 this time around. The first one was $20 dearer.
Wow! Liverpool just scored in the first minute of the second half.
Amazing goal.
Anyway, I would recommend the unit to anybody. For one, it comes with
it's own hdmi table. The Sony one that I bought did not and it cost me
$40 bucks for a hdmi cable.
Secondly, the philips one plays DVDs from various region while the
Sony does not play my region 1s.
So that's what makes me bought the philips. And not to mention that
the philips start up much faster.
Slim.
Tbb
sisibon. Formerly taken care of by jack's place, we were smitten by
it's fish and chips.
I ordered turkey carbonara, su ordered gado-gado and Adam ordered kids
size fish and chips.
Just one word: weloveit!!
Aside from the portion which we think were a bit too small, the taste,
the love can be felt not just our tongues but by our other senses.
As Adam said, this is the best. Personally I feel that the coleslaw is
out of the world.
Tbb is at courts, tampines.
Slim.
Friday, April 02, 2010
Julia Child
Monday, January 04, 2010
The little noisemaker returns to school.
Saturday, January 02, 2010
At mega bites
But knee is so painful. Still. Adam is doing his first journal and he
is excited about it. I am such a happy person.
Slim.
Friday, December 11, 2009
Win 7
Thursday, December 10, 2009
What a powerful day!
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Missing you.
Su is coming back on a late flight. She said she will land in Changi at 10.45pm. I would give her an hour after that to be home free. Anyways, I think Adam called her just now and she returned his call. What Adam said, understates how he feels about her not home.
He said, "maybe mom wants to tell me that she is at the airport already I think."
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Kuih Raya
I know that Hari Raya 2009 has long past but I'm inspired by weekh blog. The picture in this post is shot using the Tamron 90mm macro with my Konican Minolta 7d. I like the colours that come off the image.
A bit about the picture. It is taken using available light in my kitchen. Those hands belong to my mother in-law. The green thing? It tastes delicious once it's done in the oven. It's called makmur.
An article regarding water in Singapore.
Forget bottled water, tap water as good as it gets
WATER is a common but very precious asset. Without water, human beings cannot survive. Without water, the planet's ecosystem, which sustains life, will be destroyed. Without water, there will be no agriculture and no industry. Without water, life on planet Earth will perish.
We regard the right of a person to safe and affordable water as a basic human right. It is a great shame that, at the beginning of the 21st century, about one billion out of six billion people do not enjoy this right. In Asia, about 700 million people do not have access to safe and affordable water.
In Singapore, all citizens have access to clean water at an affordable price. The water from our taps is safe to drink. In spite of this fact, many Singaporeans still boil their water. In recent years, partly because of our growing affluence and partly because of the influence of the West, Singaporeans are drinking more and more bottled water. In 2007, Singaporeans spent $98.3 million on bottled water, an increase of 80 per cent over 10 years. We observe that some of our ministries and universities serve bottled water instead of tap water. In many restaurants, the waiters pressure their customers to order bottled water.
We want to start a campaign to persuade Singaporeans to drink tap water instead of bottled water, whenever possible. The following are our reasons.
First, it is a waste of your money. Bottled water is more expensive than petrol. For one bottle of water you buy off the shelf (at 50 cents), you can get 850 bottles off the tap (at $1.17 per cubic metre).
Second, the tap water is as safe as bottled water. In Singapore, the water in our taps is safe to drink and subjected to daily checks. Health-wise, there is no difference between drinking tap water and bottled water. On the contrary, tests in the United States have shown that sometimes harmful chemicals, such as bisphenol-A (BPA), can leach from bottled water. Other tests in the US have shown that expensive bottled water is no better than tap water.
Third, bottled water uses energy unnecessarily. To make water bottles, you need polyethylene terephthalate or PET, a derivative of crude oil. In the US, 1.5 million barrels of oil are used each year just to make bottles for the water industry. This is enough oil to power 100,000 cars for a year.
Fourth, bottled water is bad for the environment. In Singapore, most of the bottles are not recycled but incinerated. This uses energy and produces carbon dioxide, adding to our carbon emission. Some bottled water travels great distances to Singapore. We are importing bottled water from as far away as France, Italy, Fiji and Serbia. Transport consumes energy and produces carbon dioxide. This is another reason bottled water is not a friend of the environment.
Fifth, you should drink tap water because it is the right thing to do. We can understand the need to drink bottled water in places where the tap water is unsafe to drink.
In Singapore, there is no good reason to drink bottled water. It costs you more, but it does not make you healthier. It is unfriendly to the environment.
By all means boil your water if that makes you feel better, but please do not buy or serve bottled water if you can help it. If a waiter asks you, 'still water or bubbly water', you should politely say you prefer PUB water.
We think the Government should lead by example.
We therefore urge the Ministry of the Environment and Water Resources to write to all ministries, statutory boards, agencies, Temasek-linked companies and educational institutions to consider stopping the practice of serving bottled water.
Professor Tommy Koh is the chairman of the Governing Council of the Asia Pacific Water Forum and chairman of the 2008 and 2009 Water Leaders Summits in Singapore.
Leong Ching is a PhD student at the Lee Kuan Yew School of Public Policy.
This is a revised version of an article appearing in the PUB publication Pure this month.
The right of a person to safe and affordable water is a basic human right. It is a great shame that, at the beginning of the 21st century, about one billion out of six billion people do not enjoy this right. In Asia, about 700 million people do not have access to safe and affordable water.
Water
system he is selling give cleaner water than the tap water. If this
was in another country, I would so be the very interested, but I live
in Singapore.
Anyway, by using a magnifying like in the shape of a periscope, devise, he showed me a canister of
tap water, which I saw some floating particles. Then he showed me
another canister of water which has been filtered
Sure enough, no floating particles. And then the sales pitch.
"As you can see, Singapore water is not clean. This devise is our top
selling product."
Then my response.
"Are you saying we are drinking dirty water?"
"Not dirty, just less clean."
"What would happen to me if I continue to drink the tap water."
"You'll be sick. In the long run."
"How long is long?"
"Maybe 10 to 20 years."
"So are you saying that I won't be sick if I drink water from your
filtration system?"
"Er, that depends. For example, what you eat or drink when you are out
of the house."
"So there are other factors that contribute being sick lah.."
"Yes"
"So you are saying that there is no guarantee that I won't be sick if
I drink water from your filtration system."
".."
I wanted to dwell more on the other claims but I sense that he sensed that I can see
through his claims.
But the fact that still bothers me is his claim that bottled water is
better than Singapore's tap water
I beg
To differ.
Slim.
Resourcefullness
ago.
Today is wawa's sports day. As it is, we had planned to go to the
stadium to lend her our support. When I woke up this morning, I knew
that i am going to be unwell. So, after lunch I called my darling
sister to pick Adam and Risa up and I am feeling very drowsy. The
resolution of that conversation resulted in us agreeing that she will
pick Adam and Risa up at 2.15 pm of which I highlighted to Adam and
risa. So there I was, lying in bed trying to shake off the effect of
the cold and the drowsiness of the cold medicine.
Only to be told at 2.45pm that sis can't pick Adam and Risa up because
my lovable parents need to use the car. I then told her that I will
send adam and Risa.
I then dozed off again.
It was 3.15pm when Adam literally had his face in mine as he woke me
up. He seemed pretty upset that I seemed to have overslept in sending
him to the stadium.
After a very quick washing up, I told him about the effect of the
medication that I have taken and we rushed to the car heading towards
the stadium.
It was during the ride that Adam told me what had happened.
He was worried that my sister has not pick him up. He called his
grandfather and asked for her number. He then proceed to call my
sister who explained what has transpired between her and me.
Honestly, I would not think a 7 year old boy would have the
resourcefullness to call his grandfather for his aunt's number so that
he could find out what happened to his aunt without anybody telling
him to.
Anyway, I've sent him to the stadium while I am here at my mom's car
park typing out this note.
I am so grateful that he is here, being always part of my life.
Slim.
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Name cards
Weekh
If only I could update my blog like he does. With pictures.
Anyways, my wife encourages me to enter the various photo competitions that is available. Maybe I should give it a try. Anybody know of any photo competitions?
I'm at Unisim right now, revising for my paper this evening. As you can see, I'm spending my time NOT revising. Honestly, its freaking me out. Such overconfidence can only mean one thing in my life, stupidity.
Oh well, let me just continue reading the stupid book.
Another advert
I'm a property agent!!! Yoohooo!
Monday, November 02, 2009
It's a Monday
already completed her exams. Anyway we went through comprehension
cloze. At least she learnt new words.
My noisemaker has now learnt to appreciate the different smell and
aroma shampoo and soaps has. At least, he used them.
It has been a wet afternoon. It started to rained approximately at 1
pm. Just as I had finished waxing the car. It rained too the other
day, just as I had finished waxing the car. Anyway, wifey just called
and she is cabbing her way home. Just as well.
Exams is around the corner and I can't seem to get it out of my mind.
How I wish I could start studying for it.
Watched the Liverpool against fulham. What a load of crap. If I had
known, I would not have stayed up late. Liverpool lost 3-1 with 9 men
at the end of full time. Sigh. Lousy game. Not because Liverpool lost,
just that both teams played badly.
Slim.
NYTimes: DVR, Once Mortal Foe, Is a Friend After All
DVR, Once Mortal Foe, Is a Friend After All
Once feared as commercial killers, the recorders now add significantly
to program ratings and thus to ad revenue.
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/02/business/media/02ratings.html
Get The New York Times on your iPhone for free by visiting http://itunes.com/apps/nytimes
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Name cards
smartphone like the iPhone.
Anyway, I am still waiting for my name cards to be ready. Can't wait
to start distributing MY name cards to my friends.
Anyway, if any of you readers need an agent for help in your property
matters, leave me a message.
Slim.
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